Y’all know her already! Queen Mars!
She wrote this song because she was tired of the unrealistic expectations placed on her during a toxic relationship. Mars said she “tried to be everything at once, the so-called "perfect woman". Not only is this process impossible, but it's also exhausting. I wanted to be skinny but thick in the right places, sexy but sweet, reserved but fun.” She says she searched for this perfect balance all for someone who would change their mind everyday about the type of woman they wanted. Mars says “I knew it was all in vain, yet I still couldn't seem to pull myself away. Yes, the song is written from the female POV, but I feel it could relate to anyone who has been in a similar situation of trying to change themselves to please someone undeserving.”